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Sins of the Fathers
by Geov Parrish
For weeks, ripples from the sex scandals enveloping the Catholic Church --
scandals that have transformed what was originally a New England story into
an international one -- have spread throughout American media. While the
stories of sexual abuse by priests, and problem priests being protected for
years by the Church, have been spread throughout a number of countries (in
Ireland, the Church agreed in January to pay $110 million to some 3,000
abuse
victims), the United States has been the center of the scandal, and
American
media has, as usual, focused on the domestic angles. But ethnocentricity
has
been, for a change, the least of the problems of U.S. media coverage.
In story after story in TV and print, the "scandal" has focused on the
willingness of the Catholic Church to shuffle priests with clear records of
pedophilia around to different parishes where they could, depending on your
view, either get a fresh start or find a new batch of kids to victimize in
an
unsuspecting community. Most notoriously, such policies have cost the job
of
Bernard Cardinal Law, until recently the Archbishop of Boston; Law resigned
due to fallout from the original Boston Globe stories that broke the saga
of
John J. Geoghan, a priest well-protected enough to violate scores, if not
hundreds, of trusting children.
The story mushroomed from there, with at least 80 priests now credibly
accused of similar crimes in Boston alone -- some 2,000 priests nationally.
In many of those cases, the accusers went first to the church itself, and
the
result was that the accused sexual predator would then be put in a position
of trust somewhere else. And, when the accusations were public, the
accusers
would often be publicly vilified as well.
Simply to get a handle on such widespread abuses, U.S. media coverage has
focused either on the original firestorm in Boston, or on the response of
Church authorities up to and including (obliquely, gently, and far too
late)
Pope John Paul II. The coverage has been exhaustive, and in it all, only
one
class of people seems to have been completely forgotten.
The victims.
Pedophilia among religious figures of all kinds, but particularly among
Catholic priests (owing presumably to their Church-imposed vow of
celibacy),
has been a running "joke" for years. The current wave of cases certainly
can't come as any surprise to most people, except for its sheer size. It's
astory that plays well due to the utter revulsion most people feel when
considering what happened, and the apparent collusion of people (let's be
specific: men) in very high positions of authority. (It's a completely fair
question as to whether either the original crimes would have committed in
such numbers by priests, or whether the crimes would have been treated so
cavalierly by the Church hierarchy, if both the priesthood and the
hierarchy
were not boys-only clubs.)
Pedophilia, in general, is a crime that inspires revulsion, in our society
and in most others; even within prisons, sex offenders are notoriously
despised. But for a commercial media that generally likes to sensationalize
and personalize crime stories, to the point where most Americans believe
there is far more and more violent crime in this country than there
actually
is, it's notable how little the unique awfulness of these crimes has been
examined (let alone harped on), and how few victims' stories have been
told.
Here we have children (mostly teens, but including pre-teens) being
violated
not just by any adult, not even just by an authority figure, not even just
by
a representative of one's faith, but by -- given the doctrine of the
Catholic
faith -- a direct representative of God Himself. Moreover, when one has
inappropriate sexual conduct with that representative of God, the faith is
also unique in its capacity to inflict guilt on the victim -- the child is
then saddled with the rather heavy knowledge of not just having sinned in
the
eyes of God, but having caused "God" to "sin," too. And of having an even
greater likelihood than usual of not being believed, or being punished,
shunned, or worse, should the child tell anyone else what happened. And of
having an abuser with more power than usual to threaten his victim should
the
victim tell. Most abusers can threaten violence, but few have not only the
capacity to promise an eternity in Hell, but an apparent ability to
personally and literally deliver on the promise.
Victims of incest and pedophilia, especially ones either trapped in an
abusive situation or forced to live for years with their "special secret,"
commit (or try to commit) suicide at a rate much higher than average. They
also tend more often to act out in a number of other self-abusive or
sociopathic ways. We'll never know what the human toll of the epidemic of
abuse now being described in our newscasts and daily papers actually
amounts
to -- the lives lost or ruined -- because only the most healed, least
damaged, and most courageous (and alive) are now coming forth, even years
later.
But even among those folks, unquestionably there are many compelling,
harrowing stories that would help the public to understand the depth of the
crimes committed by not just a small, sick minority of priests, but by the
Church hierarchy that shielded them -- and, by extension, the more "normal"
crimes of child abuse committed daily in our society.
Because of its they said/they said nature, the seriousness with which
sexual
child abuse accusations are treated tends to swing rather wildly over time
in
America. A decade ago, it was fashionable to talk, without evidence, of
Satanic rituals and repressed memory, and a lot of adults were unjustly
accused. More recently, we got the pseudo-medical-sounding "false memory
syndrome" and many victims' stories were unjustly dismissed. This scandal
is
likely to help swing the pendulum again, and it's important to remember
that
accusations, for any given crime, are by themselves no guarantee that the
crime actually happened. But in many cases, they did, and the real story
here
is not the response of people like Archbishop Law or the Pope. The story is
the people who were abused and silenced when they were young, and who now,
in
many ways, are being silenced by media accounts all over again.
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