Blaming the Tiny Victim
by Geov Parrish
I thought I'd written about all I could stomach writing on the seemingly
bottomless pedophilia and pederasty scandals involving the Catholic church.
Here and in other spaces, I've written about the scandal itself; the
abysmal media coverage of it (covering everyone except the victims); the
dithering, clueless Pope and his minions; the men-only hierarchy that makes
such cluelessness possible; and the vast majority of good priests also
victimized by their sick, criminal brethren. I thought that about covered
it.
But then, last week, a report in the Boston Globe suggests that Boston's
Cardinal Bernard Law has sunk to a new low.
The nadir comes in a response, filed in April by Law's lawyers, to a
lawsuit brought by a boy named Gregory Ford and his parents. It alleges
that Rev. Paul Stanley began abusing Ford when he was six years old, and
that Stanley's bosses knew or should have known that Stanley was not just a
practitioner, but a long-time advocate of sex between adults and young
kids.
Law's reply contains a lot of the sort of standard denials that you'd
expect when lawyers get involved. But it also includes the following:
"The defendant says that the Plaintiffs were not in the exercise of due
care, but rather the negligence of the Plaintiffs contributed to cause the
injury or damage complained of."
What Law is saying, in other words, is that six-year-old Gregory was,
indeed, victimized by the lecherous Reverend Stanley--but that at least in
part this was Gregory's fault. And/or the fault of his parents. (Both of
whom are the Plaintiffs.)
Think about that for a moment. No, better yet, don't. You'll just lose your
last meal. Because what Law's lawyers are claiming is not just the standard
conservative refrain of blaming the victims--or, as happens when bad things
occur to or are done by kids, asking where the parents were when it
happened. (In this case, Cardinal Law, they were trusting their small child
to a man presumably of the Lord.) This is worse. This is blaming the victim
when the victim is a small child, and the crime committed is considered one
of the most heinous and despicable our troubled society has to offer.
I will confess, to any and all, that I was pretty skeptical when Law and
his colleagues came back from Rome, pronouncements in hand, and piously
proclaimed that the Pope had prepared unprecedented procedures for removing
predatory priests from position of power. (Sorry if saying that sentence
involved a lot of spitting.) As we all heard and read, that process would
kick in only if a priest were considered to be a "serial offender," and
then only if his superiors deemed the man a threat. (You think so?)
Of course, if they thought a priest was a threat, they would have done
something in some of the 2,000 or so cases now plaguing the church, ranging
from decades ago to weeks ago. But they didn't, because the attitude that
seems to pervade this guys' club is that sex with minors--be they
promiscuous teens or small children--is a public relations problem, or a
personnel problem. It's not, of course. It's a felony, an act that can and
does scar people for life. Firing someone on the second offense, maybe,
isn't what you do when you learn that a serious crime has been committed.
What you do is you turn the guy in.
The obliviousness of the Catholic church, from the Pope on down, couldn't
be captured any better than it was by Law's lawyers in their response to
the lawsuit by poor Gregory Ford and his family. Deny everything. Protect
each other. Blame everyone else. But whatever you do, don't show an ounce
of compassion for the people whose lives you may have destroyed.
In our society, a lot of people in power respond in that fashion when
calamity calls. But one of the reasons we use the word "sacred" when we
talk about the church is that we believe there to be some basic
ethics--moral laws about how we humans conduct ourselves--and that churches
are the one institution in our society whose sole purpose is to help all of
us aspire to those higher laws.
And then there's Cardinal Law, apparently blaming a six-year-old for being
partly responsible for his victimization by a man of God.
Any diety I've ever read about would be embarrassed to have such people
claiming to act in His name.
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